"Decard" recently published an article saying that she went back to work not long after her confinement period. Her husband was a wife at home taking care of the children. However, as the children grew up and the family became more and more serious, her husband kept finding reasons to return to the job, which made her feel excited about divorce because "I am paying money and I also do my family, so I need this old man. What are you doing? "
One person carries the family expensesOriginal PO said sadly, "After 8 years of marriage, I have been turning like a gyro every day, trying my best to maintain the economic level of this family..." My husband has left his job and stayed at home since the birth of the child. He said that he doesn't want to miss the growth of his children. During this period, she will bear the family expenses alone, and sell at least 150,000 yuan a month. Including a 60,000-yuan loan, a 20,000-yuan child sales, a 15,000-yuan water and electricity insurance expenses, a 30,000-yuan diet, and a 30,000-yuan salary to her husband, which made her unable to save money in the past few years.
My husband taught her that she worked hard and "he and children," but after the original PO, she found that in addition to having to take care of some of her family work when she came home from get off work every day, her husband wanted her child to "seek her mother on holidays" because he usually took her children. So she had no way to have a good rest time when she returned home and worked.
A variety of reasons "refusing to return to the job site"The original PO went on to say that the child was sent to the kindergarten when he grew up 3 years old, and did his husband plan to go to work.
Usually, I just swipe and wash clothes at home, and occasionally make meals for my children. I play ball, play electric, and ride on the bike at other times. The couple has discussed this many times, but the husband always refuses it for various reasons, and even uses the child as an excuse, and finally it is incomplete.
Later, the child went to elementary school, and the original PO proposed again, hoping that her husband could return to work in the job.
But my husband said, "When my child was 0 to 6 years old, I had no rest for 24 hours. After the child went to elementary school, I finally could relax and wanted to take a break first." But this break has been two years. Now that the child is about to go to the third grade, my husband still doesn't want to go back to work, and says that he has left the job for 7 years and cannot find any good job.
The reason is that "it is unfair to me to go back to work."
This makes the original PO feel very uncomfortable. "I started to have a divorce. I paid for it and I also did it for my daily family. So do I need this husband to have sex?" Unexpectedly, when my husband learned about her thoughts, he said that he had worked hard as a full-time father. Considering that he had "no income for the family" over the years, he asked the original PO to share half of his property.
She said helplessly that although her annual salary was 2.5 million and her husband would give me a prize from time to time, she said that his employer worked hard to ask for travel and buy things. "I have no way to save money in the past few years, and I don't want to buy the bags I want to buy, and I will use them to satisfy him as much as possible." Unexpectedly, the other party was still thinking about money until the last moment, which made her feel desperate.
Netizens ratingsAfter the article was exposed, netizens ratings ratings 2, leaving a message saying "I can only say that taking a child is not that simple. I took a day and found that I was much more relaxed at work", "Switch gender, if it is a full-time mother, everyone It should be that it is normal to help with housework after get off work", "The husbands of single-paying families want to divorce more than you", "I have changed my gender, and I am the heartless scumbag", "Please consult a professional lawyer and get rid of this giant baby."
In fact, the road to marriage is tolerance and support. After love enters marriage, relationships will become mutual aid relationships, and long-term improvements can be achieved. Only by working together can we create a happy life.
Responsible editor: Chen Yaomei