Shenzhen media person Fan Qifei has shown a new identity certificate that has cleared her spouse column. She shared on her face the divorce process with her Mexican husband who has been married for nearly 20 years. She mentioned the reasons for the divorce between the two, which was the recent reason that the ex-husband had a third party, and the longest reason was that the two people imagined differently about the elderly. When the two of them signed, their ex-husband cried. She thought to herself, "Isn't this caused by you?" Luo Huiqun, a psychologist at the beginning of business, said that when they got to divorce, no matter who was wrong, both of them were facing "relationship loss". The next two people could expect that they would have a period of self-appropriateness to leave.
"Just like this, a person who has lived together for 20 years has completely disappeared from my life." Fan Qifei and her ex-husband who has been with her for nearly 20 years have recently officially written the next sentence. She also calmly shared the divorce process. The marriage paths of the two have taken different paths. She said that after leaving this relationship, "congratulations to me, because I really have passed by better than before." The article has sent many netizens to respond. In addition to congratulating her, many netizens have also shared their life experiences after divorce and encouraged Fan Qifei to welcome the next stage of wonderful life.
{9 99}Luo Huiqun said that after the marriage relationship of nearly 20 years, whether the man has an affair, or whether the two have trouble with each other, or whether the two have conflicts about their elderly life, based on the average life of modern people of 80, 20 years is equivalent to a quarter of their life, and both of them will face "relationship loss". Some people's expressions are crying, difficult, and angry, while others are unwilling to give up and keep turning back to pursue the shadow of the past.
However, people will not only face loss of relationships in marriage, from elementary school, parting with first-time friends, leaving parents, etc., and face loss of relationships of all sizes along the way. Usually everyone has the strength to stand up again from loss of relationships, whether it is to complain to friends or seek the next relationship, etc. It is one of the methods.
However, some people with poor physical and mental states will affect their life decisions due to loss of relationships. For example, this stage is more likely to be stolen and other multiple pressures. At this time, if you realize that you are unable to resist the pressure from all directions, you must immediately seek professional psychologist assistance.
Luo Huiqun said that everyone has different times when facing the loss of relationships. Some people have spent decades, some have been adapted to a good life in a few days. The end of a relationship actually represents a new beginning. Although it is a common conversation, from the perspective of clinical experience, "time can cure everything", in the process of standing up again, no matter which side needs the power of "company".
In recent years, news about celebrity divorces have been unremarkable. Luo Huiqun said that Taiwan society is becoming more and more willing to start discussing the necessity of marriage. The previous generation believed that marriage is a list of necessary life. Many couples endured the pain of relationships in order to check the list. Modern people are more able to accept that marriage is not life. If you want to do something before entering marriage, it is more understandable than before. To bear the responsibility that needs to be borne in marriage, he thinks it is a good thing and also expects that for divorce, don’t think it must be a tragic thing. Sometimes it is a heartwarming thing. Everything is two sides, and you don’t have to look at it too much with a framework.