At this time, the young daughter-in-law and wife were not as good as before, and the mother-in-law's thoughts became more and more open. If she married another teammate, she could only say in a very vulgar way, "It's definitely a uploader to save the earth!"
The older people have many deeply rooted and ingrained thoughts. These thoughts have even been washed from childhood, especially those who are ready to be pregnant or have already been pregnant. Which one has not received the trash of thoughts from the elders? As a young wife, she is also out of favor, so how can she talk back!
{9 A few days ago, a netizen from Dcard's family board, published a post with the title "My husband is a teammate", how amazing is it? It attracted the attention of the editor. Winnie said that her in-laws are very good, but she still has some old ideas, and she has different ages since she was born.And if her husband is usually her own business, he will choose not to quarrel when encountering conflicts with his family. Originally, Winnie was worried that if he encountered traditional ideas, would he choose not to react and ask her to bear it. Unexpectedly, her husband would respond immediately, and afterwards, he would tell her that he would come and deal with it again! Below is the traditional concepts she encountered and the story of her husband's teammate.
Event 1: I took the iron coffee almost a cup of iron coffee every day before I got pregnant. Sometimes when I met my mother-in-law, she would remind me a good voice.Mother-in-law: If you are pregnant, you should drink less coffee!
Me: OK!
My husband heard it immediately: The doctor said that one cup a day will not affect it!
Mother-in-law: Oh~ Just have a doctor question.
Event 2: Only with a good body can we conceive the next generation (before pregnancy) should be heard frequently before pregnancy. My mother-in-law doesn't talk about it often, but she still reminds me. Sometimes when we see us return home at 12 o'clock or 1 o'clock in the evening to report safety, she will remind me that it will not be possible.Honey: Can you please stop talking? Don’t you know that even if you have a high pressure, you can’t get it? (I don’t need to open my mouth at all)
Event 3: I drank iced drinks before pregnancy. Before pregnancy, I drank sugar-free tea (removed iced). Of course, I also drink 2,000cc of water every day. After pregnancy, I felt nothing about coffee, so I almost had a cup of sugar-free tea + 2,500cc of water every day. Once, my family had a meal together, and I took a cup of sugar-free green tea to sit in, and my mother-in-law opened her mouth.Mother-in-law: Do you drink it and leave it ice?
Me: Yes~ Now I should be warm often
My mother-in-law: That's good~ Don't drink ice when pregnant, it's not good for children to take care of the air
Me: OK~ (Inner OS: I met it!)
Husband: So do you drink ice every day when you are worried about me? Otherwise, why would I feel gasping for breath! !
Mother-in-law: No! I don't dare to drink it at all, otherwise you wouldn't be the only one
Husband: Isn't it bad at all? (My husband was a little bad at that time, so I dare not talk)
(I changed the topic later)
In-laws did not intervene, and thought about everything about their daughter-in-law. Winnie laughed and said that she had few incidents and was very lucky. Her mother-in-law would not care about her eating more and eating less as long as she had food. She often reminded her husband to help her with housework and not to make her too tired. And her in-laws are really good. "Father-in-law, I just ask, only if I have to tell us anything, I will come back and tell you, and then I will silently remember the date of the production and let my husband take a vacation to accompany me to the production and test." (My husband is an employee in the family's company)"My mother-in-law is an office worker, so she doesn't meet her on weekdays. Only on holidays can she meet her. Although she doesn't often show concern, she will give her money to my husband at the beginning of every month and ask me to buy her. I like eating or health food.
I cherish everything before and after pregnancy. I am very grateful. At the same time, Winnie also added that my parents-in-law did not love her because she was pregnant. "Before marriage, my mother-in-law would ask my husband to help me get my bags and carry heavy items. After marriage, I stayed together for a short time. I woke up every morning and would be at the living room table (my mother-in-law would buy it back before work every day, and she could also order meals), and would also ask What I like to eat? As long as I have said it will easily appear on the dining table. ""Anyway, my mother-in-law is really good! I also want to praise my teammates!" But my husband also told Winnie privately: "Don't drink in front of the boss in the future. Anyway, I don't live together. It doesn't matter if you see how you want to eat ice or drink ice at home."
Netizen: I hope I'll still be a teammate after giving birth. Friends made netizens leave messages: "This teammate is really magical", "I admire the fact that there are good teammates, and I also meet good parents-in-law", "My husband is very powerful", but some netizens also reminded: "You should pay attention after giving birth, and it is often different from the concept of childbirth", "I think it's another thing to have a child. Before I was born, I thought my husband was a teammate, and after giving birth..." made Winnie laugh and cry.
The editor thinks that it is really a happy meeting such a husband and in-laws! Especially there are not many husbands who can always speak to their wives and stand completely on the stage of their wives. And parents-in-law who thinks about their daughter-in-law in this way are really rare. Please cherish each other!
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